Friday, July 18, 2008

relationship secrets 11-15

♥FUN♥
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days. Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

♥GOALS♥
Make sure you have similar goals.
It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

♥GRUDGES♥
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.

♥KEEPING IT HOT♥
Keep it hot by traveling to different places together.
A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

♥HONESTY♥
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

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